Resurrection Reflections: A New Beginning
Author: Faith Mukarugwiza
Resurrection Reflections: A New Beginning
Author: Faith Mukarugwiza
Dare To Dream Fund Ministry.
Searching the Heart, Seeking the Truth in His Light.
What began as a simple act and an attempt to regain a sense of control, to pamper myself with something as small as getting my nails done, unfolded into a deeper, unexpected reckoning.
In that quiet moment of outward care, outside chaos, inside me quite tranquil soften sacred questions rose within me, tied not only to personal conviction but to the core values of a home I dearly hold—Rwanda.
A conversation began between spirit and soul, against truth on modernity and my culture, beauty and eternal truth.
How could such a simple visit stir such deep waters within my heart?
But then again, walking as a Christian woman in this age is anything but simple. Rwanda modernizing so rapidly. Surely, it was the Holy Spirit—gentle, ever-present—awakening my heart once more, revealing Himself in the language I know best: conviction, questions, truth. I had to ask myself:
Should I be intentional about the color on my nails?
Does Scripture speak to how a woman of God should adorn herself?
My heart wrestled with the images I’ve seen—women of faith, ministers, leaders—bearing bold and extravagant looks.
But at home not so much so.
So I asked, Is it boldness or simply noise I asked?
Do their adornments reflect the humility and holiness Christ calls us into?
Where do we draw the line between expression and distraction?
***And then I turned to the daughters of Rwanda.
What happened to the quiet strength of the Rwandan woman?
Where is the modesty of culture, the grace of tradition?
Have we moved too quickly, wrapped in the whirlwind of globalization, that we lost sight of the beauty of a pure and true heart we once carried in silence? ***
I found myself in the book of Jeremiah, heavy with the weight of its warnings—its truth about false shepherds, about a people wandering.
And even though it took me long to get through, I was eager to reach Lamentations, where grief meets hope. I am not there yet still a few pages to go.
It stirred something deep, a call to seek, to understand, to obey. And in that moment of November 2024
I knew: That I was not just being refined. I was being commissioned.
I received a Vision
The vision became a Mission
Now i am seeking a Chore Value an Identity In Christ Jesus.
For I am not just preparing for a wedding day—I am preparing for the Wedding Day.
I am not simply choosing colors—I am choosing to reflect Christ in all I do.
And as I grow, even in small things, I ask again:
Who are we as women of God?
Are we truly pursuing Him as He asked us to?
Can the Word be bent to fit the times, or must we bend ourselves back to it?
These questions are not about nails. They are about identity.
They are about vision. About calling.
And yes, about culture—a Rwandan woman finding herself again through the lens of eternity. I’ve always been gentle, soft-spoken in how I present myself.
But somewhere, a longing rose to be louder, to test the waters of self-expression as a mirror of what I see.
So then I ask myself
Was it boldness? Or a subtle scheme of the enemy to nudge me away from purity? I do not yet have all the answers.
But I know the One who does. And He has called me.
He gave me a vision. He placed me in His church.
And what once lived only in faith has now come alive in the land of the living.
Another confirmation. Another testimony. Another prophecy fulfilled. So now I seek—not just for myself but for the daughters yet to rise—
An identity rooted not in trends or tides,
But in Christ.
And in all of this, yes, even in the question of nail color, I return to His Word.
“Do not let your adornment be merely outward… rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God.”
—1 Peter 3:3-4
This is the truth.
This is the way.
This is the light.
And even if I wrestle, I do so with the Word as my anchor.
Becoming a Well-Prepared Bride: The Sacred Work Before the Celebration 🌸
There is something profoundly beautiful about the journey to becoming a bride. The gown, the flowers, the sparkle in her eyes — but beneath all of that lies a deeper truth: marriage is not just a moment.
It is a holy covenant. A divine calling. A life assignment that requires deep, intentional preparation far beyond the wedding day.
In today’s fast-moving, globalized world, it has never been more important to return to biblical foundations of marriage, especially in places like Rwanda, my home my beloved where we are like the rest of the world unfortunately witnessing a troubling rise in divorce rates, broken families, and disillusioned couples.
Marriage was never meant to be entered lightly though it is so often we love we fall in love and in a blink of an eye we say I do without truly knowing what we do too! — and yet many brides are stepping into this sacred union without the knowledge, healing, maturity or spiritual wisdomneeded to sustain it.
“Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.”
(Psalm 127:1)
The statistics are sobering. In recent years, divorce rates in Rwanda have been steadily climbing, especially in urban centers. Many young couples, often driven by social pressure or romantic ideals, enter marriage unprepared for the reality of covenant life.
And the consequences are far-reaching:
Children growing up in broken homes
Families divided
A culture slowly detaching from its values
A church struggling to support what it never helped build
This is not just a private problem—it is a national and spiritual crisis.
We believe that to restore marriage to maintain covenants, we focus deeply on the bride—and not just her outer beauty, but her inner foundation.
In our ministry, we are committed to raising well-prepared brides—women who are spiritually mature, well rounded with etiquettes, emotionally whole, and biblically equipped for the lifelong covenant of marriage.
🌿 Rooted in the Word — She understands God’s design for love, leadership, and submission as strength, not weakness.
🕊️ Emotionally healed and whole— She does not carry past wounds into her future.
🧠Wise and discerning — She knows how to communicate, pray, and navigate challenges.
💫 Honoring of culture — She embraces her Rwandan heritage while walking in the truth of the Gospel.
✨ Glowing with inner beauty — Her joy and confidence are not just in the dress she wears, but the Spirit she carries.
“She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.”
(Proverbs 31:25)
As part of our vision, we’re also launching a bridal fashion initiative within our programs—because we believe a bride should both look and feel like royalty. But even more than that, we want her to be dressed in truth, covered in prayer, and anointed for her future.This is more than a style statement—it is a movement* where faith meets elegance, and where every thread of the gown tells a story of purpose.
As Rwanda continues to grow globally, there is a temptation to trade our cultural values for trends. But we believe that the answer is not to abandon our roots, but to deepen them in Christ. As we navigate what it means to be a Rwandan lady in a Global world. Through our work in evangelization, inclusion, and empowerment, we are preserving cultural dignity while preparing women for global influence—starting with the home and starting with the heart.
Sister, whether you are a divorcee, single, engaged, married, or simply dreaming of your wedding day this message is with you.
Think of preparing now. I know that I am. :) I know that you should as well.
Let God refine you, restore you, and raise you up as a woman of covenant.
Let your beauty be more than your veil or the adornment of your clothes— let it be your virtue and a pure heart.
“You are altogether beautiful, my darling; there is no flaw in you.”
(Song of Songs 4:7)
Let’s build marriages that last.
Let’s raise brides who are not only radiant — but ready.
Because the bride of Christ is not just loved.
She is called.
And when she prepares well, she becomes unstoppable.
Yours, Faithfully,
Ms. Faith Mukarugwiza.
Navigating the Heart: Choosing the Cross When It Costs Everything
Author: Mukarugwiza Faith
There comes a moment when your heart cracks open not from pain, but from clarity. This is the story of a soul called to leave everything familiar behind, and to wear a new Name. Not for escape. Not for ambition. But for love. For inclusion. For Christ.
I remember the day the most beautiful decision was taken to follow Christ Jesus 100% in November 2024 by then I had already given my life to Christ in 2019, I had being a Christian for 5 years by then.
I decided to go all in, not with bags packed or doors slammed, but with Joy in my heart, favor and silence. With resolve to go all in with Jesus Christ and where He would lead me. It wasn't dramatic at all though it may have seemed that way :). It was holy, it was bold it was maturity in me.
The kind of holy that makes your stomachache but gives your skin goose bump because you know—deep down—you’re saying goodbye to something you’ll miss for the rest of your life and hello to the greatest blessings of all. But what you miss -- surely you will meet again and hopefully not too late. My family didn’t understand completely thought they actively try. How could they? How can they? The calling isn’t theirs. The vision I carry is not theirs the one—of a table where everyone is welcome, where wounds aren’t hidden but held—wasn’t given to them. It was etched into my chest, between my ribs, where breath meets spirit. And when God whispered, “Go,” I had to decide: comfort or calling?
I chose the cross.
Not the golden one polished on church walls. The real one. The cross that costs. The cross that severs. The one Jesus warned about when He said, “If anyone would come after me, let them deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.” (Luke 9:23)
So I walked. Away from the known. Into the wilderness. There’s a particular kind of ache when you pursue something divine and all you hear from behind you is the echo of absence. Birthdays missed. Conversations avoided. Eyes that once sparkled with recognition now squint in confusion. “You’ve changed,” they say.
I have. Because to carry the ministry of Christ on inclusion means you love the ones the world told you to fear. You listen to the ones the church told you to correct. You sit with the ones no one else would touch. And sometimes, your own people don’t recognize the Christ you’re reflecting back to them.
That’s the hardest part. Not the loneliness. Not the road. But the longing.
I still dream about them. I still pray. I still ache.
But I move.
Because love requires movement. Inclusion requires risk. Faith—real faith—is not found in staying where it’s safe, but in walking where you can’t see the ground beneath your feet.Christ did it first. Left His home. Faced rejection. Sat with the scandalous. Wept in gardens. And even He asked, “Father, if it be Your will, let this cup pass from me…”
And yet.
He drank it.
So I do too.
Navigating the heart in this journey means constantly choosing to keep it soft when it wants to harden. To cry when crying feels weak. To open your arms again and again, even when no one’s coming.
It means trusting that one day, maybe, your family will see what you see.
But until then, you walk.
You build. You love. You include.
And when it hurts the most—when you feel the weight of that cross on your back—you remember: He sees you. And you are not alone.
He is Risen. 21/04/ 2025
Copyright 2025. Dare To Dream (Anything is Possible Through Christ Jesus) Fund. Ministry.
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